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hi my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him but i dont know if im ready, im afraid if i tell him that he will think im silly and, i dont know, im just scared. what should I do?? help!?

Hello! Well, to start off I don't know how old you are so that can be a main factor in problems like this. From the sound of it you are kinda on the fence about this. You should really be absolutely sure you are ready for something like that, it is a big step! Another thing is, if your boyfriend is pressuring you to do something like that he isn't being a very good boyfriend, he should respect your decision and wait until you are really ready, if you tell him that and he gets mad then you deserve WAY better than him. A relationship goes both ways, you guys need to respect each other! Hope I could help!

XOXO, Fay




hey fay! so i really like this boy at my school but im horrible at talking to guys. how should i approach him? we have a lot of classes together, but i never talk to him! :( help?


I totally understand your problem, it actually can be fixed fairly easily believe it or not! A good way to approach him (especially if you have classes with him) is to do something small like pick up his pencil or sit by him and spring up a conversation. Maybe something like "Man, last nights homework was awful! Did you get it at all?" he can either agree with you and you can laugh or he can say he understood and you can be like, "Well I guess you're going to have to help me, huh? haha" Another thing to remember is you shouldn't be scared because if he doesn't really seem interested then their are plenty other cute guys out there! No harm done, right? Just go for the gold girl!

XOXO, Fay




hello, uh I'm a guy and im always nice to girls but they just dont seem to like me, what do girls like in a guy???

Well I can't REALLY answer that question to tell you the truth, all girls have different taste. I will tell you though, that a lot of girls like the rebel bad-boy type. I'm not saying you should be mean of course, but maybe thats how you can get this girl, you know, hook her. Once she has her eye on you then you can be a sweetheart. Another thing is that you should e confident in yourself! guys and girls love confidence. You just have to be yourself and be comfortable being your self. Don't worry, you'll find that girl! ;)

XOXO, Fay

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